Sunday, December 17, 2006

Who's Hotttt... Who's Notttt...

Well...Well... Well... Three T's in a 'Hottt' of course means Hottt!!

I just came from a party and as usual, the writer's mind found some thing to write even there..... But today its going to be on Hottttness.... :)

The dance floor was full...the disco lights were blinking hard..... All were rocking.. the party was on with full blast music.... and it was just then when I took some moment of rest in between the reckless rocking dance sessions.... As I sat watching the crowd, I could see a magnetic effect in a group dancing in the corner.... somehow all were getting attracted by them... what was so special... what was so exciting about that chunk.. it was the Hottt girls in that group.... May be all wanted to move their moves with them...

I was sitting next to my mother, who is also my best friend and she told me that she knew why was I finishing my dinner so fast, as I wanted to have a dance with those Girls in that corner. I smiled and said that's true.

Somehow the party was favourable to me because I was called up on the stage before that and had been praised by the anchor for some reasons not important to mention.... So I could see those hottt eyes rolling on me couple of times.....that made things easier..... Anyways the challenge was accepted and I knew I had to dance with them.... however, it was a peice of cake.... thanks to the confidence God gave.... So there I was dancing with the most wanted Girls for about half an hour......at least the ice was broken so that the next time I see them a pleasant smile will be enough to start a talk.

But, the point here is somewhat different as I wnated to analyze this self act... In this world you are considered successful if you have the best, the most expensive or the most sexiest things..... a very stupid world this is, you see. Why does the Guy wanted to hang around with the Girl, why does he want to be her dance partner on the floor.... because we gauge ourselves Hottt and in demand if we can have the best one in the party.. the sam thing must be applying to the Girls... well, I can't comment on them as this is just an assumption based on the human psychology.

Opposite sex is an important thing in the life of most of us.... from the very beginning I have had chunks of Girls as my friend.... But, as I sit to analyze why do I like to take a Girl for Coffee, even when I don't feel actually commited to her... the reason is again simple.... we all feel its cool to have some one sexy with you, who you very well know is in demand among your colleagues.

Human psychology is funny.... we all want to show off... and these are also a very important way for one to go up in life..... When I ask my friends, those who have Girlfriends or Boyfriends, that how commited are they?....Many of them answer...Ohh!! its considered cool to have one, since all have, we also have..... there is no such love or commitment... Strange!! isn't it!

We go far far to any extent to do things that make us feel in Demand and Hottt!! But looking at the other end, what's wrong in it?... Yes, nothing wrong.. its just a way to live.

We all have to do these things beacuse sub-consciously the human mind is doing funny things to make us feel good..... in one or the other way.... I don't regret anyone's action and even not mine, because I understand that in this fake world we do fake things for feeling better among fake people.

But, to have an anchor to yourself, that will not get you swayed away in the high tides of superficiality, devote sometime that will take you closer to the inner self that is true and eternal and is not entangled in the superficial self..... As of me, I everyday devote some time when I wear white clothes and sit to meditate... In that state, I am much close to the inner bliss that any hottt stupid concept, or any other external tide. The mind is calm like the lake and in the quaint mental state at that moment I cherish the eternal truth we all are made of.

We are we... and no external agency can define or undefine us..... the mind is the toughest thing to control and once that's done we can very well, look within our selves to know why are we doing what? Do whatever you want but if done in a fake sense... be sure you know that you are faking and don't get engulfed by it.... Play this life, its a game.... no rules, no win, no loss.. Just play it. Nothing is right nohing is wrong... all a make of mind... So do what you want... and do sometimes what you don't want also, but spend sometime at least that will give you the true essence of your self..... so before getting closer to Hottt thigs make sure you don't burn yourself :)..... as we are all here not to burn ourselves, but to WIN!!

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